The severity of family dynamics that play out in my counselling room day after day would perhaps take many people's breath away. Seldom are the dynamics felt more deeply or painfully than when a recent death has taken place. Unresolved family issues along, poor listening skills, lack of knowledge about the grieving process, and a decided absence of stress management skills cause much unnecessary havoc and pain for the surviving individuals.
It has been my experience that a strong background in stress management strategies, sufficient knowledge about how healthy and unhealthy "family systems" function, and well developed conflict resolution skills are all MUSTS for professionals faced with the task of successfully fulfilling their executor duties. I have a great deal of faith in the Certified Executor Advisor program making a difference in peoples' lives.
Velma Noble, BA, MAPPC, CCC, CEA
counsellingconnections@shaw.ca
www.counsellingconnections.net